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Are you done?​
Allowing shame to silence your voice?
Pretending to behave to belong?
Holding back the truth of who you are?
Are you ready to step out of survival and into your power ?
To be seen, heard and know that you MATTER?
To speak your truth, open your heart and reclaim the truth of who you are?
It’s time to STOP HIDING and LIVE OUT LOUD.
The deepest part of you is calling you back home to the heart of who you are.
Hi, I'm Becca.
SHADOW WORKER
I help badass, GenX women get back to the heart of who they are, so they don't stay stuck in the self-punishment/perfectionism cycle of childhood trauma using the Live Out Loud System.
Even if you've done years of therapy that didn't work.
The truth is you were born to stand out but conditioned to stay small.
Your feelings hold the key to unlocking the very power and healing your looking for.
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You vowed never to be powerless again and you believed the way to achieve that is by cutting off your emotions and burying your heart.
And while that saved you back then, it doesn't get you what you want now.
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Because when you cut off from pain you also cut off from love.
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You’ve been waiting your entire life to stop getting it right and start speaking your truth. It's your turn to step into your power and let go of the misguided fear that you'll hurt someone with it.
There is a Dark Goddess in Each of Us
When a powerful girl's voice and power are silenced her heart goes deep underground. She cuts out her heart, buries it, and keeps on going.
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Suppression creates the fire in which the Dark Goddess is born.
Her seething rage is what keeps us alive.
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This is your inner mythology that holds the hidden depths of your unexpressed pain and hoas the power to unleash your true power. The Shadow self - the parts of you that have been rejected, belittled, and demonized have power. She's always there underground tracking, watching, and keeping score. Fantasizing of settling it later in violent ways. She has a right to be heard.
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You judge her because in the world she's been deemed inappropriate. You fear if you let her out she will hurt others and be judged, punished, criticized or even killed. So you hide her and show a different face to the world. One that hides the truth of who you are.
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The deeper truth is, as a girl you were never allowed to express BIG emotions or maybe any emotions at all. So you never got the chance to learn how to feel them, how to survive them, much less still be loved for expressing them. No one could hold big enough space without fear and now you fear yourself.
Instead you're stuck in a loop of old patterns:
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shaming yourself for your own desires,
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numbing out because you can’t achieve them
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and then telling yourself, "I'm a failure", for not being able to fix this it or figure it out.
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The truth is whether you were hit or not, what hurt worse than anything, was the loss of unconditional love that ultimately disconnected you from yourself, your instincts and your power
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The reason you haven’t been able to shift this is because your survival patterns are in direct conflict with your deepest desires.
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If this is you, this is not your fault and you are not alone.
The shame, judgement and humiliation that were used to tame your spirit and control your actions are not the truth of who you are. However, it became the only form of love your nervous system understands and a form of punishment that keeps you trying to get it right to stay safe and belong.
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I get it because I’ve been there.
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If you're like the amazing women I've supported over the years,
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you have a lot to offer, and you've done a lot of work on yourself. You've also done very well in many other areas of your life.
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Maybe you’re like I was a few years ago you have the money, the job and people you call your friends but, you’re missing real connection and belonging.
You’re stuck in this lifeless life wandering around, learning everything you can to find a way out.
Instead you now know more than any therapist but still feel disconnected from yourself.
And you’re left believing that you’re searching for a road home that doesn’t really exist.
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Well...It does
You deserve to express yourself freely in YOUR WAY without judgment or criticism.
Imagine...
What if you could love your light and your darkness equally? What if you could embrace all aspects of your expression fully. The only demand on yourself is to be authentic, honest and in integrity with the heart of who you are.
Imagine appreciating and loving yourself for expressing all of your anger, ugly parts, and shameful bits in healthy ways.
Imagine the relief...no more pressure of having to hide. Falling in love with every aspect of who you are no matter what it is or how strongly you feel it. In fact imagine, the more you express the more excited and connected you feel to yourself.
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The acceptance of loving all of your aspects brings you back home to the true heart of who you are.
There’s no right way to be you.
So let’s stop trying getting it right for everyone else and start getting real with yourself!
You’ve been hiding your power behind perfectionism, control and that tough girl facade.
How can anyone have the chance to love you for who you are if you are unwilling to show them who you really are?
Maybe you don’t know how.
It’s possible that after decades of pretending to be someone else to survive that you’ve forgotten how to access your emotions, trust your gut and follow your instincts.
What if I told you, that unconsciously the reason you cut off from that part of you then was to save her for this moment, right NOW.
You were gaslit to repel the very part of you you're looking for.
Your pain can become your superpower.
Turn old beliefs...
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It’s my fault
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There must be something wrong with me
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It’s not safe to love me
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I should never have been born
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It’s not safe to let anyone in
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No one wants to know the real me
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I can’t rock the boat
Into New Ones
I am empowered
I express my inner fire
I love who I am
I trust myself
Setting boundaries is fun
Do you long to...
​Reclaim self-trust
Handle conflict with ease
Confidently set healthy boundaries
Ignite & reconnect with your creativity
Express your radiance through an open heart
Automatically feel safe, seen and heard and accepted
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The confidence you seek has always been right here and it has been just waiting for you to say YES to the full power of who you are!
You're at The Mystic Point
None of your coping mechanisms are working anymore. And you have no idea what to do next.
You're at a Crossroads
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dive into the unknown, become your full Self
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stay the same, continue your current experience.
An initiation point where the subconscious or unseen within you is calling you home to the heart of who you really are.
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You’ve outgrown the life you were living and you’re ready for a new version of you.
confident
outspoken
unapologetic
strong and safe
powerful
the ability to feel deeply
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"I don't want control. I want to let go!"
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~ P!NK
You need a clear path that can use that conflict to reach your desires
You want to let go but don’t know how.
You’ve never found a place strong enough to hold you that allows you to feel safe enough to let go.
You desire to be seen for all of who you are and held, loved and appreciated for what you bring to the table.
You're a tough, no nonsense woman.
Your motto is what doesn’t kill me makes me stronger and you can take anything anyone dishes out except disconnection and withdrawal of love as a bargaining chip to control you.
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Introducing the Dark Goddess Academy
This system is designed specifically:
to break you out of survival
into confidence
express yourself freely
be loved for all of who you are
in just 90 days
without years of therapy
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It's your turn...
It’s time to come out of the shadows.
It’s time to embrace the real you.
It’s time for you to take up space.
It's time to be heard and seen.
It's time to be loved for who you really are.
Meet your Guide, Becca
I was born with the ability to see where people subconsciously choose against their true feelings which puts them out of alignment with their subconscious desires and souls' true expression.
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I was constantly calling it out because I thought everyone had this ability. I didn't understand why they would lie to me about what they were really feeling. What I didn't realize until years later is that others did not share this ability and didn't appreciate me calling it out. My gifts were a direct threat to my parent's desire to maintain control by denying their true feelings.
Because of this ability, I experienced trauma repeatedly and often beginning at a very young age. I got hit for telling the truth they didn't know and didn't want to know and for not being "normal". Emotions were not allowed. That trauma opened up even more gifts that connected me to the Spirit world and the world of the unseen realms.
I was taught by Spirit how to overcome many forms of trauma using energy tools and shadow work. Now I use all the tools that Spirit gave to me to help my clients reclaim the pieces they need and want to reconnect with that they cannot see.
The strength and power within us is stronger than we know if we use the tools that go beyond the power of the mind.
10 years of tools and formal education in the unseen realms combined with the gifts and tools Spirit provided allow me to bring powerful healing to subconscious healing where trauma has taken root and can hold us back from being our true, full authentic selves.
In the depths of our greatest fears lie our greatest strengths and power.
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Have questions before joining? Schedule your free 30-minute discovery call below, I'm happy to answer any questions you have.
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